By: Puleng Maphisa – 19 April 2024

In the realm of academia, the journey towards graduation is often portrayed as a culmination of years of hard work, dedication, and perseverance. However, for some, like Motshabi Allita Paile, this journey is cut short, leaving behind unfinished dreams and aspirations. Yet, amongst the sorrow, there exists an emotional touch abouther name that resonates with dedication and resilience.

Motshabi was more than a mere student; she embodied the spirit of determination and excellence during her time at Vaal University of Technology (VUT). Graduating with a B-Tech in Food and Beverage Management with Cum Laude honors in 2019, she stood as a testament to what relentless pursuit of knowledge and unwavering dedication could achieve. Her academic expertise was further acknowledged with a Vice-Chancellor award, a recognition of her outstanding achievements within the university community.

But Motshabi’s journey didn’t end with graduation; it was merely a steppingstone towards greater heights. She seamlessly transitioned into the professional realm, becoming a prominent figure within her field and serving as a food and beverage specialist at South African Airways, subject moderator and advisory board member for the food service management programme at VUT to name a few. Her expertise and passion for her work brightened every work she undertook, earning her respect and admiration from colleagues and peers alike.

In 2023, Motshabi cherished aspirations of pursuing her Masters, a testament to her everlasting thirst for knowledge and self-improvement. However, fate had other plans, as she was offered the opportunity to pursue a Post-Graduate Diploma in Food and Beverage Management, due to the alignment of old qualifications with the NQF levels of the new qualification. Despite setbacks from her original path, Motshabi embraced the challenge with characteristic grace and determination.

Tragedy struck on the 19^th of November 2023, shattering the lives of those who knew and loved Motshabi. Her family was left reeling from the sudden loss, struggling with the unfathomable pain of her absence. Yet, among their grief, they found comfort in the permanent mark she left on the world.

Within the walls of VUT, Motshabi’s absence was strongly felt, leaving a void that could never truly be filled. Dr Kuda Marumo-Ngwenya, one of her lecturers, fondly recalled Motshabi as one of the most dedicated students she had the privilege of teaching. “The hospitality staff members and the HOD express their gratitude to the Paile and Mdluli families. It was an honour to have a student of such great calibre. she said. Motshabi’s commitment to her studies never wavered, a testament to her unwavering resolve and resilience.

Dr Marumo-Ngwenya recounted her unwavering dedication, a testament to her character that transcended even to the confines of illness. “Motshabi would send an email to her lecturers informing them that she is hospitalized, despite that she would submit assignments on time. She shared, her voice touched with appreciation and sorrow.

Motshabi’s legacy continued to resonate even in her absence, as she was posthumously honored during the Autumn graduations. On the 19th of April 2024, exactly five months after her passing, her husband, Mr Thapelo Paile, ascended the stage to collect her late wife’s certificate, an emotional moment that underscored the enduring impact of her legacy.

Mr  Paile, visibly moved by the occasion, struggled to find words to express the deep loss he felt. “Motshabi’s absence leaves a void that can never truly be filled,” he reflected, his voice thick with emotion. “But her spirit lives on in all of us, a beacon of hope and inspiration that will continue to guide us forward. I am truly thankful that God blessed me with her, she was a phenomenal woman.”

Amongst the guest/ audience was Motshabi’s parents and her three children Palesa, Khumo and Rorisang. As we bid farewell to our fallen VUT alumna, may her spirit find eternal peace, and may her legacy of dedication and hard work serve as a guiding light for generations to come.